BlondeByDesign said:

BlondeByDesign

If a friend never does anything for you or to help w/o a motivation behind it, does that make them a sorta friend or just plane selfish?

10 months, 2 weeks ago in California, USA.

15 comments so far

  • krazykritter

    Is twitter your hang out and this your place to vent?

    10 months, 2 weeks ago by krazykritter.

  • adonisdemon

    I'd take it as a compliment.

    10 months, 2 weeks ago by adonisdemon.

  • BlondeByDesign

    @krazykritter -- seems that way, huh, hon? @adonisdemon -- what is a complimentary about a person w/ motivation?

    10 months, 2 weeks ago by BlondeByDesign.

  • krazykritter

    Just an observation is all.

    10 months, 2 weeks ago by krazykritter.

  • BlondeByDesign

    @krazykritter - not so many people on jaiku -- easier to speak my mind while I'm sorting out my thoughts. smiles

    10 months, 2 weeks ago by BlondeByDesign.

  • edythemighty

    @BlondeByDesign: There's people alright....just they aren't willing to comment on jaikuz of peoplez they don't know all that well

    10 months, 2 weeks ago by edythemighty.

  • adonisdemon

    @BlondeByDesign: Does anyone actually do anything without motivation? OK they may not be a friend after all, but you can't blame them for it, unless of course it is something very sinister.

    10 months, 2 weeks ago by adonisdemon.

  • adonisdemon

    @edythemighty: More of a private familyku? When you're in you can feel the people.

    10 months, 2 weeks ago by adonisdemon.

  • BlondeByDesign

    @adonisdemon -- I do things for people w/o manipulation, expectation or motivation ALL the time. I don't dig selfish people. :)

    10 months, 2 weeks ago by BlondeByDesign.

  • BlondeByDesign

    @edythemighty -- oh I have same people on both twitter & jaiku list .. it's just the energy of jaiku -- it's a good sorting out spot.

    10 months, 2 weeks ago by BlondeByDesign.

  • adonisdemon

    @BlondeByDesign: I don't want to start a war or imply I know what I'm talking about, but we all do something for someone else for a reason, hence there is always motivation. Even if it helping a lady across the road, it makes one feel good, not saying it;s a bad thing but it's still done with motivation, consciously or not. Only sinister motivation is not a good thing.

    10 months, 2 weeks ago by adonisdemon.

  • BlondeByDesign

    @adonisedemon -- you've missed the whole point of where I was w/ this & truly am not going to go into it any further. Thanks for the thoughts.

    10 months, 2 weeks ago by BlondeByDesign.

  • BlondeByDesign

    @krazykritter -- a good observation, hon. hugs

    10 months, 2 weeks ago by BlondeByDesign.

  • adonisdemon

    @BlondeByDesign: Glad to be of no help ;-)

    10 months, 2 weeks ago by adonisdemon.

  • samannzinnia

    Maybe the friend sees you as self actualizing.

    10 months, 2 weeks ago by samannzinnia.

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