@BlondeByDesign: Does anyone actually do anything without motivation? OK they may not be a friend after all, but you can't blame them for it, unless of course it is something very sinister.
@BlondeByDesign: I don't want to start a war or imply I know what I'm talking about, but we all do something for someone else for a reason, hence there is always motivation. Even if it helping a lady across the road, it makes one feel good, not saying it;s a bad thing but it's still done with motivation, consciously or not. Only sinister motivation is not a good thing.
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I'd take it as a compliment.
1 year, 10 months ago by adonisdemon
@krazykritter -- seems that way, huh, hon? @adonisdemon -- what is a complimentary about a person w/ motivation?
1 year, 10 months ago by BlondeByDesign
@krazykritter - not so many people on jaiku -- easier to speak my mind while I'm sorting out my thoughts. smiles
1 year, 10 months ago by BlondeByDesign
@BlondeByDesign: There's people alright....just they aren't willing to comment on jaikuz of peoplez they don't know all that well
1 year, 10 months ago by edythemighty
@BlondeByDesign: Does anyone actually do anything without motivation? OK they may not be a friend after all, but you can't blame them for it, unless of course it is something very sinister.
1 year, 10 months ago by adonisdemon
@adonisdemon -- I do things for people w/o manipulation, expectation or motivation ALL the time. I don't dig selfish people. :)
1 year, 10 months ago by BlondeByDesign
@edythemighty: More of a private familyku? When you're in you can feel the people.
1 year, 10 months ago by adonisdemon
@edythemighty -- oh I have same people on both twitter & jaiku list .. it's just the energy of jaiku -- it's a good sorting out spot.
1 year, 10 months ago by BlondeByDesign
@BlondeByDesign: I don't want to start a war or imply I know what I'm talking about, but we all do something for someone else for a reason, hence there is always motivation. Even if it helping a lady across the road, it makes one feel good, not saying it;s a bad thing but it's still done with motivation, consciously or not. Only sinister motivation is not a good thing.
1 year, 10 months ago by adonisdemon
@adonisedemon -- you've missed the whole point of where I was w/ this & truly am not going to go into it any further. Thanks for the thoughts.
1 year, 10 months ago by BlondeByDesign
@krazykritter -- a good observation, hon. hugs
1 year, 10 months ago by BlondeByDesign
@BlondeByDesign: Glad to be of no help ;-)
1 year, 10 months ago by adonisdemon
Maybe the friend sees you as self actualizing.
1 year, 10 months ago by samannzinnia